i found out recently from a friend on here that i'm not allowed to ever be frustrated when i put a lot of work into something and i'm still bad at the thing because it's

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@monorail (not at you, at the friend implying that being frustrated is toxic, like, what the hell)

@monorail other peoples' emotions that aren't convenient to me are toxic and should be repressed

i am very healthy to be around

@kat no it wasn't that it was that i said "if i'm garbage at a game after putting a bunch of work into it, it's not comforting for someone who hasn't put ANY work into it to say 'well you're better than me', like yeah i am but that doesn't make me good"

like "i am bad at the game, but people who have never tried to be good at the game are worse than me" is a toxic mindset i guess

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