Violence?
We draw a hard line at the skin. Skin can be broken when we're in the mood for blood,
but both parties are to remain functional at the end, minus minor cuts and bruises
However, we're also p l u r a l, so sometimes our blend likes that to be applied roughly, and with certain allowances for battle damage
How to aftercare!
Everyone gets aftercare. Everyone gives aftercare. Be liberal in your care and you'll feel better in return;
Some people prefer to be comforted right away, some prefer to have a few minutes to regroup and think. Be available, be ready, but be understanding;
The goal is to talk about how it made you feel, comfort each other, and come back to your normal state
How to choke (basic version), tips:
- Always keep constant eye contact
- Keep going until they tap or their eyelids start to flutter
- Pause in between so their circulation can reset
- When the session is done, give plenty of aftercare
How to choke (basic version):
1. Put the knuckle at the base of your index finger against the top of your throat, where it meets your jaw
2. Place your thumb and index finger against your neck. You should be able to feel your blood pumping
3. Increase pressure until you feel the "drooping" sensation
Meta about sex
Sex does not always turn out well. Sometimes you make mistakes, sometimes you aren't in the right place for it, sometimes the feelings don't come out how you want
The important thing is to learn why they didn't work, so you can have a better time in the future. Even our bad experiences can teach us, if we want to learn from them
@astraluma [sarcasm] great, thanks, astra
[not sarcasm] now I'm thinking about clickers again;;;;
Violence?
We draw a hard line at the skin. Skin can be broken when we're in the mood for blood,
but both parties are to remain functional at the end, minus minor cuts and bruises
However, we're also p l u r a l, so sometimes our blend likes that to be applied roughly, and with certain allowances for battle damage
the actively lewd version of lucky
not always CW'ed, though we try